weekend update

Haven't blogged for a few days. But, I haven't been feeling well. Because of that, we had a quiet weekend. We had plans, and lots of "stuff" to do. But I've had a few health concerns recently, and so, I took it easy this weekend.
On Saturday, A and I spent the whole day together. That sounds odd...I mean, we are MARRIED...but it is unusual for us to be together constantly, or spend the whole day together.
You see, we got together later in life than most couples we know. We were 35 when we met....and 40 when we married. So, we each had our own lives before we hooked up. Our own friends, and our own "stuff" to do. Most days, he goes his way, and I go mine. We always know where each other is. But, he is not always with me, and I'm not always with him. Even when we are at home...he's off doing his "thing" and I'm somewhere else doing mine.
So, Saturday was special. We were supposed to go to a Christmas dinner that night, but cancelled because I wasn't feeling well. Instead, we went Christmas shopping together, he took me out for lunch, then we came home to cuddle on the couch all night and watch TV and movies. It was a great day. And I'm glad I wasn't feeling well, as it gave us the excuse we needed to slow down and re-connect. Almost like we were dating again. :-)